Amusingly! About five minutes after posting that comment, I found strangevisitor.org, and am now busily engaged in the making of icons.

And yes, I do think it's the mother thing, and also just that way he has about him---you know how sociopaths learn to be incredibly sharp observers so they can artificially reproduce the behavior that comes naturally to most people and thus pass for normal? It's like Bobby has that, only he also has empathy, which makes him not a sociopath, but good at drawing people in the way sociopaths do.

THERE IS NO REASON WHY I SHOULD LIKE HIM AS MUCH AS I DO BUT THEN I HAVE A HANNIBAL LECTER ICON.